If you want new results, do something different. This article will break down and explore a simple way to improve your chances of finding the perfect partner
The first step to immediately improving the quality and number of potential mates in your life is to know what qualities your perfect partner exhibits and more importantly, what type of activities your perfect partner is into. By knowing what you are looking for, you will be displaying a number of attractive qualities by default. These attractive qualities include displaying higher value and will result in increased levels of interest from the opposite sex. Once you have determined what qualities your perfect partner has, your next task is to determine what activities interest him/her. The perfect activity is one you are also interested in. The activity can be anything from visiting art galleries, to playing chess to reading. This article will teach you how to create an event and build a social circle based around the activities/interest of your perfect partner thus significantly improving your chances of meeting the partner of your dream.
Note: For the rest of this article I will speak from the point of view of a male trying to meet a female but this process works both ways
With a new found knowledge of what type of girl you are looking for and what activities/interests she would be interested in, you can now significantly improve your chances of meeting her. Instead of leaving things to fate, you will now nudge the odds in your favor by spending more time in areas where you are likely to find your perfect girl. If you are interested in a girl who can dance, then you need to spend more time on the dance floor. If you are interested in girls who like to surf, its time to spend more time at the beach and surfer bars. Regardless of what activities your perfect girl is into, you will need to spend more time where this activity already takes place.
By exposing yourself to these activates more often, something magical happens. You will find that you have much more to talk about and that you will easily build strong and lasting connections. By sharing a common interest with a girl you are able to create a bond that represent the foundation of a relationship. The more you are able to find in common with a girl, the better your chances of having a successful interaction are. By knowing what you are looking for in a girl and then putting yourself in the right place, you will find it easier than ever to build a connection with a potential partner, talk forever and have a GENUINE AND LEGITIMATE reason to stay in touch.
Creating an Event:
When you meet a new potential partner that interests you, you will improve your chances of success by inviting him/her to an event that YOU created based on an activity that interests both of you. If you are both interested in the same activity and you host some kind of group meet up surrounding the topic, you now have the PERFECT reason to stay in touch. As a fun experiment, from now on invite every girl you know to your event. Because you are mostly meeting women who you know are interested in the event you host, you should find it easy to build a genuine connection based around your common interest and then successfully invite them to your event. (The reason to stay in touch is so you can send her the details to your event and add value to her life!)
How to create an event that will help you cultivate an attractive lifestyle:
The easiest way to create an event is to pick a time, date and place where the event will be held. It’s that easy.
You will then focus on finding girls interested in the activity that your event is based on, using the common interest to build a connection and then exchange details with the intention of inviting her to your event. To guarantee success, create an event that will be reoccurring at least monthly and continually invite more girls to your events. It may take a few events to get the ball rolling but the reward will more than outweigh the effort.
By creating an event based on the activities that your perfect girl is interested and adding value to her life, you will quickly find members of the opposite sex more interested in getting to know you. As the leader of the event, you will immediately be considered attractive and alpha. Additionally, you will be viewed as an expert in the activity, which is coincidentally something your perfect partner is interested in. [Maybe you could spare some time to help her learn something new about her favorite activity?] To stack the odds even further in your favor, you will have massive social proof from being the event coordinator and you will be the only person in the room that everyone in the room knows. Most people will naturally start conversations with one another asking how they know YOU! It’s amazing how all of this is possible from putting a little thought into how you approach your dating life.
- Create a list of all the qualities and activities your perfect partner enjoys
- Pick an activity/interest you share will your perfect partner
- Pick a time, date and place where you will host recurring events based on the activity/interest you share with your perfect partner
- Determine where you have the highest odds of meeting a partner who shares similar interests as you and spend more time there
- Build a genuine connection based on having a common interest, which will naturally lead into a reason to stay in touch
- Repeat this process with everyone you meet
- Hold the event at least monthly and you will soon be living the life you’ve always dreamt of